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In this issue:
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Quote of the month
"Blessed are the flexible as they will not be bent out of shape."
- author unknown
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A Note from
Linda
Happy New Year!
Don’t you love this month’s quote? It was told to me by a client. Can
you imagine that quote posted on a Boardroom wall? Or in the back of our
minds as we go through each day? What would you be doing differently if
you were more flexible at home or at work? How would your interactions
with others differ? How much more could your work teams accomplish? How
many new ideas would be born out of increased flexibility? How much more
trust would develop in business teams? I know for me, the more flexible
I am in my thinking the more options and possibilities come to me,
particularly when I am looking to solve a problem of some sort.
Here’s the challenge for each of us over the next month or so. Keep this
quote top of mind as we go through our days and see what transpires as
we shift to being more flexible in our thinking and our doing. I bet we
hold less judgment, assumption and gain more ideas and improved
relationships. Feel free to write me about it at
oprica@ascentcoaching.com
I am always happy to hear from you.
May 2008 hold all you need for yourselves, unknown gifts beyond measure
and the wisdom to see the gifts when they arrive. Oh yes, and a year of
considerably less mental, physical, emotional & financial clutter. That
almost goes without saying! -Linda
- Book
Report
Instead
of a book report this month I have an article, which was sent to me a few
days ago. I think some of you may find it quite interesting. Click below and
have a peak.
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/01/01/health/01well.html?no_interstitial
Comments? Send them to me at
oprica@ascentcoaching.com
- The Cost of Clutter: A Recent Example
- Dot Snow
This past quarter has been an exceptionally busy time for me at work. I
couldn't understand why I have been feeling so behind in my projects
until I reviewed my calendar and realized that between team offsites and
conferences and trainings and all-day meetings, I haven't been in my
office more than 2-3 days a week since Labor Day. That didn't slow the
paper avalanche though, and soon my desk became covered with stacks of
paper. This was the typical pattern: I'd return from a conference and
put the stack of materials to process on my desk when I had more time.
I'd head off to a meeting and return from that meeting with more paper
and make a new stack on my desk before heading off to the next meeting.
I was reluctant to file away the papers and folders because I was afraid
I'd forget that I was supposed to follow up on something from the
meeting the old "out of sight, out of mind" syndrome. This pattern
would repeat itself over the weeks and soon I was surrounded with stacks
of material from each of the meetings, files folders strewn across my
desktop to the point where I only had a small space to actually work in
front of my chair.
It was interesting to reflect on the physical reactions I felt from the
clutter. It felt cramped to be sitting at my desk and I just couldn't
get comfortable sitting there. I was distracted and unable to
concentrate on any particular project. And that sense of falling behind
in my work made me feel anxious—a clear sign of the emotional impact
that the clutter was having.
It came to a head the other week when I was unable to put my hands on a
strategic thought document I'd been working on from one of the
conferences I'd attended. It was a hand written document, with lots of
notes scribbled in the margins when the occasional bursts of inspiration
and insight had hit me. It hadn't yet been translated into an electronic
form, so when I couldn't put my hands on it when I needed it I could
feel a sense of dread filling my mind.
So I began going through the piles of papers and folders on my desk. My
big fear was that my hand-written document had been grabbed up with
other papers and stuffed into any one of the file folders that were
being opened and closed in the course of my work. I ended up looking
through the file folders of every current project I had folders for
looking for that document. No luck, even after a couple hours of
fruitless searching.
I decided that I could do some de-cluttering while I searched for the
document. I started going through the most likely file folders it could
have been grabbed up into, and thinned out the files of outdated pieces
of paper. I then made a note of what follow-up was needed on a running
"to-do" list, and filed the folder away in its drawer. On to the next
one, repeating the process. A few hours later, I had cleared off one
side of my desk, thinned out several folders, and was reminded of some
important follow-up tasks but I still hadn't found that hand-written
document!
Well, this part of the story goes on for a while thinning out folders,
recycling no longer needed paperwork, and putting things away in their
proper place. All the while, I'm thinking about that strategic thought
document and wondering how much of it I would be able to recreate from
memory. And then, when on the last stack of binders and folders, I spied
the purple file folder from the specific conference where this work had
all started. I grabbed it and lo and behold, inside there was my
hand-written document!
First thing I did was to create the electronic version of the document.
Second thing was to finish processing that last stack of paperwork so
for the time being my desktop was clear.
I realized that the accumulated clutter had cost me in several ways. I
lost several hours of work time searching among the paperwork on my desk
looking for the document. There was the emotional clutter of anxiousness
and feeling unsettled from trying to work in a crowded environment. The
lack of an efficient way to process next steps from work projects cost
me time and a couple of missed opportunities.
What I'm working on now is at the end of each day, I'm going through the
file folders and paperwork that accumulated that day before I head home.
Same process—replace the outdated versions with the new versions of
documents, write the next steps on the "to-do" list, and file away the
folder. I also pull the files needed for the next day's meeting and set
them up in the folder holder, ready to grab when the meetings start.
It's working so far onwards!
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Coaching Tip
Instead of a New Year Resolution:
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Choose one area in your life and/or work that you’d like
to be different.
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Decide exactly what it is that you would like to be
different and write it down.
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Brainstorm on paper all the different ways you could
achieve this. Do not judge the options.
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Choose your top three options that seem to fit best for
you.
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Write out in more detail how each of these options would
work.
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Choose the option that you feel most committed to or
connected with.
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Write out how choosing this option would enhance or
benefit your work and/or life (related to #2).
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Create the time and space (literally and mentally) to
incorporate this option. Could involve scheduling, other
people, time, whatever it takes to make this happen.
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Make a purposeful commitment to yourself and tell at
least one other person your plan and ask for their support
(most likely emotional such as a cheerleader of sorts
although not limited to that).
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Decide how you will celebrate having achieved what you
set out for yourself in #2.
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Write us at
clutter@ascentcoaching.com and tell us all about it so
we can cheer you on and congratulate you as well!
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Personal Reflections
I am taking on the role of President of my Rotary
club starting July 1 and my “training” has already begun if you can
believe it. Those Rotarians are organized! I started with a meeting
in December of the upcoming presidents in the surrounding areas and
then have a number of different Rotary weekend conferences and
training in February and March in various locations. More learning
about protocols, programs and leadership in Rotary. I’ll be
reporting back as the months roll on.
I’m serving my last three months as president of the Chamber.
December was a busy month of attending functions on behalf of the
Chamber and frankly by the time Christmas came around I had
socialized enough for at least six months! As an introvert, it takes
a great deal of “energy” to socialize with people for lengths of
time and days on end. I always have to re-group alone in order to
re-energize myself, unlike those extroverts who thrive on this kind
of activity. I enjoyed it all and also, was not sorry to see it
over.
An unexpected opportunity arose in December and I decided to jump at
it. There was a vacancy on the Comox Valley Airport Commission Board
for a representative from Cumberland. I applied and was fortunate to
be chosen to represent the Village. I am finding there is so much to
learn about the Commission and its role in visioning for a very
fast-paced and quickly growing international airport. There is a
whole new group of people to work with on this board, which I find
quite exciting. Again, I shall keep you posted.

Then there was Christmas. David & I went to Victoria to see Brad,
Tania and Cohen about 10 days before Christmas and had a wonderful
little celebration complete with turkey and all the trimmings.
You’ll see a photo of Cohen as well as the three of them, while we
played a new card game of Cohen’s. He’s growing so much and is so
very sweet and happy. When we left this time, I got a big hug and a
whisper of “grandma you’re the best” which brought tears to my eyes
as well as Tania’s. That kid is a smooth operator and certainly has
smitten his grandma!
We
also went to North Vancouver on the 23rd for a visit with Amanda,
Jenn, Tim & TJ and the rest of David’s family. We had a fabulous
brunch at Kel & Mel’s and sat around catching up on life’s
happenings as you can see in the photo at the dining room table. Was
great to see little TJ again although he was having so much fun with
his 2nd cousins he could have cared less that grandma and grandpa
were there. He didn’t even sit still long enough to have his picture
taken. All he wanted to do was play. Can’t wait to have a good visit
with TJ, his mom & dad and Auntie Amanda in February.
As promised here is the picture of baby Isabella Rose and her
parents, Woody & Arianna, the week following her birth. She settled
so well into her stay at the Village
Hideaway
that you’d think she’d been there before! What an adorable little
girl. I hear from Arianna that she is settling well into her home
with her mom & dad on Hornby Island and spending her days smiling a
lot. Can’t wait to visit them and see for ourselves.
Since they left the Village Hideaway has been full. We’ve had more
guests waiting for their house-build to complete and for the last
three weeks we’ve had a couple from Ontario here who are visiting
with their kids and grandkids who live on our street. A perfect
set-up for grandma & grandpa who can entertain at “their” place. We
have thoroughly enjoyed having them here and will miss them when
they leave this week.
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Cumberland Chronicles
As
you can see from the photos we have had a winter wonderland in the
wee Village this past month. The amount of snow is amazing and the
cold temperatures for such a length of time are unusual. It was
beautiful though on Christmas morning to see huge snowflakes falling
as we ate our scrumptious breakfast with our guests. David, Misty
and I bundled up and went for a nice long walk in the Village,
Christmas afternoon, and it was beautiful. The Christmas lights were
lit downtown and they sparkled against the white snow. It truly
looked like a painting from a long-ago time and of course I had not
thought to bring the camera. You’ll just have to use your
imagination.
In the days leading up to Christmas all the little shops in the
Village were bustling with activity including snow shovelling. Was so
much like an old-fashioned village with the shopkeepers sweeping and
shovelling the snow from their walkways while the shoppers mingled
with their coffees in hand. Simple and breath-takingly beautiful.
There was also the annual Christmas parade through the Village with
decorated trucks and floats beyond your wildest imagination. The
shopkeepers decorated their storefronts and the homes were done up
in lights and décor, ready for the parade and annual decorating
contest. The Senior’s complex did a bang-up job with decorating
their little places all with donated lights and decorations. It
looked beautiful and they were so proud of their efforts.
We’ve had a number of great hikes through the snowy forests this
December and on New Year’s Day as well. Fresh air, the smell of
woodstoves wafting through the air and Misty frolicking like a puppy
and fast asleep the instant we got back home. It is raining again
and the snow is all but disappeared. Nice to have the warmer
temperatures although sad to see the snowy little Village disappear.
There was such simplicity about it all. I think that’s what I liked
best.
We’re off for a hike now, this time bundled in rain gear. See you
soon!
- To Reach Linda
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