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Volume 2 | April 2005 |312 subscribers For more information and to view this newsletter online go to our website now !
In this issue:
"Those who do not create the future they want must endure the future they get. "
- Draper L. Kaufman What are you doing about creating your future or are you just planning to endure the future you get? Interesting quote this month that ties in nicely with my seven strategies, particularly around creating a vision and choosing what works for you. What decisions have you made recently that support the vision that you have for your life? In Dot’s article this month she so clearly and eloquently takes us through the stages of her financial clutter and the mental and emotional clutter that comes with it. She then goes on to talk about the decisions and choices she has made which support the vision she holds. Dot is actively creating her future and I think this is a must read for all of us. I had a call from a woman this week that I have not met who had heard about me and was interested in working with me. She easily came up with a list of what is cluttering up her life. When I asked her what she wanted for herself in her life her answer was “I don’t know.” We talked a bit about vision and she said she’d not ever thought about it or what it was that she wanted. She is overwhelmed by the clutter on all levels in her life and is at this point enduring her present. The good news is she does know she wants it to be different, she doesn’t know where to begin. My work will be to support her as she begins to clear the clutter in order to create the space for creating a future for her, rather than enduring the future she gets. And you? - Linda Simplicity and Success In Simplicity and Success, Bruce Elkin helps you find what you love and then organize your life and work so that you can create it – in spite of problems, circumstances and adversity. Driven by vision, grounded in reality, and focused on results, this simple yet powerful approach will help you simplify and integrate your life and work. It will help you achieve the success you long for. And it will help you feel energized, authentic and whole. Daffodils are in full bloom, tulips are popping up, and bright yellow forsythia blossoms are cheering up the neighborhood. Deep inside of us a hungry primal urge says clean, clean, clean! Shake off those winter blahs and get yourself ready for sunny skies to come. Spring-Clutter-Cleaning gets the home and office in order so we can enjoy the good weather to come. So what is Spring-Clutter-Cleaning and how to go about it without getting overwhelmed? Start small and start simply. Get out a bag for garbage, one for recycling, one for charity and one for the undecided. Walk around your space and toss the obvious stuff – newspapers, magazines, multiples, broken items. Focus on clearing surfaces of tables, shelves and desks. Don’t let yourself get caught up in emptying out drawers or closets. The focus of this task is to free up space. Think about creating a more spacious place that reflects the season. Winter is for hibernating in our safe, warm, luxurious dens. Spring is about new beginnings, wide open fields that we can get out in and enjoy without frostbitten noses and toes. Let your personal space reflect the change in seasons. Pick-up anything that you haven’t used or appreciated in the last season and put it in the undecided box. Perhaps it is too valuable sentimentally to toss or it might be important to someone else in the household. Before making any decisions put it in the undecided box to look at later. Often once you make space after getting rid of superficial clutter, new homes open up for important things that weren’t being properly honored and appreciated in their original location. Make space for a vase of fresh flowers liberated from the neighbor’s garden. Clear winter boots and heavy coats from the hallway and put out your gumboots, umbrella and rain jacket instead. Out with winter weather gear and in with spring. Pull back heavy winter curtains so you can enjoy the clouds flying by and bright green buds on the trees. Then you can get down to business and vacuum up the dust-bunnies that hopped out of hiding.
There is greater efficiency in clearing out clutter before cleaning so you don’t dust unnecessarily.
If you have a Kathryn - katchung@canada.com
Hear what others have to say.
Last month I asked you, the reader, a question about the most difficult pieces of clutter you had to manage differently or eliminate. Thank you to all who wrote me with your experiences and challenges. There was no explicit permission given to use the responses sent to me so in good faith I cannot publish them in my newsletter until I receive that. I so appreciate whenever any of you write and would be grateful to those who would offer their comments and permission to share with others. Question: I am traveling a great deal by car and air for my work and find that I am feeling tired and finding myself quite disorganized in my thinking and in my work. Any tips to help me through this? Answer: I have several clients who travel with their work, some quite frequently. During the first year that David & I lived on Vancouver Island I commuted weekly to Vancouver for work and it was not easy and created a lot of clutter for me, particularly mental clutter. For those frequently traveling I have a few tips that I learned along the way.
These are just a few things I have learned in my travels. Any other ideas to share? Send me an email at clutter@ascentcoaching.com
The month of March started off with me being sick with a cold/flu/laryngitis for a week, feeling better, then sick again for another few days. I am good now. Think there was just too much going on in February with all the house stuff; buying, building and selling, plus my work. March 11 came and all the “subjects” were completed and our house “SOLD”. By the time you are reading this we will have become tenants in our house. I cannot believe, well, actually I can believe how differently I feel now that all the real estate stuff is done with our house. There is such a load (mental & emotional clutter) lifted from me. I always knew it was there just never realized how heavy it was till it was gone. That’s the thing with mental and emotional clutter. We don’t always see the impact it has on us and in our lives, like getting sick or impacting our work or relationships negatively. I frankly felt like I wanted to crawl out of my skin at times this past month, the clutter was so heavy. Identify the clutter and then choose what works in order to eliminate or manage it differently. It has been so wonderful to not have to “stage” the house or adjust my schedule to accommodate a showing. Relief is spelled S O L D. To add to the mix we had an offer accepted on another little house in Cumberland. I love real estate or at least the buying part. The house is an old-timer, updated in many ways and very cute. The short story is after having it inspected there was a substantial problem with what was under all the living part of the house, which meant increased costs that could not be all told till we jacked up the house and put in a foundation wall. We wanted to negotiate a different price now that we had new information and unfortunately the sellers were a no go. We collapsed the deal, which is good. I still want to purchase another property to rent as part of my long-term vision and retirement so in the meantime we will sit back and watch the market while we move along with our house building. I have started some de-cluttering, organizing and packing now that our house has sold and this feels very good. I have this thing about space; feeling like I have enough so this de-cluttering is helping me have that feeling. David and I are awaiting news of our grandson’s arrival. He was to have arrived on March 26 and is obviously delaying his grand entrance to the world till he feels like it. His parents, Brad & Tania, are waiting too and are excited and nervous about being first time parents. Expect some pics in next month’s newsletter. Seems like there is a lot of new beginnings this Spring like new life and new houses.
Cumberland Chronicles Stay tuned for the framing and all that I have learned about building in next month’s newsletter. -Linda For
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